Jon would have been content to let it go at that, but soon enough they've paused again and Martin is being so tender in the way he asks. How does he articulate something he's never really talked about?

"I uhm." Good start. Jon hasn't put this much thought into it before. "I don't think so?"

They've established going slow, so that's something. Jon thinks that will be alright for a while. Martin's been terribly understanding so far.